"Fall in love. Not specifically with someone, but with
moments. Fall in love with small things in life. Take a moment when something
good happens, and enjoy it, grasp it and be thankful."
Since moving to Kansas City from Charlotte, of course things
changed. I have been missing my family, friends, and just my regular routine in
general. It is definitely nice to move and start over, but Kansas City was not
exactly our dream destination. During the first couple of months, it
was like a honeymoon with the city. We enjoyed festivals, outdoor events, new
restaurants… everything was new and great!
After the honeymoon was over with the city, my husband and I realized
that this was not a vacation and that this was our home now. Then, we started
to notice little things that would pile up. People are not as friendly as in
the South, the weather is extreme, everything is far, soccer mom’s are
dangerous, we pay more taxes, we don’t have good friends in the area, our
family is far, flights are expensive and longer from Kansas City… and the list
could go on and on. The longer we would be here, the longer, and even
ridiculous, the list would get. “What do you mean that they don’t offer
Athletic Conditioning classes at this gym?”.
Something had to change! Moving to another city is not an
option. Dennis has a contract with his company and we will be set here for at
least two years. We might as well find a way to enjoy it.
Small changes have been taking place. We currently live in a
very wealthy neighborhood, which means that we don’t really fit in. Therefore,
we will be moving to an area that feels more like home. In the meantime, I
really appreciate being able to enjoy great medical service in the area,
fabulous spas, big shopping areas, and clean and safe parks. The perks of
living in an “expensive” area, I guess. No offense to anyone. If I had kids, I
would stay here so that my kids could enjoy the great school system, but right
now I’m paying the high taxes just so that my dog can walk in a nice park? Not
really worth it for us, but I’ll enjoy it in the meantime.
Small changes will continue to happen. But this time, we are
banned from whining or complaining about our current city. Bitching is so tiring. Kansas City is
really a great place, but we are having a really hard time enjoying it as we were
blindfolded by our negativity.
Get the point?
Get over it. Make it a point to enjoy what you are currently
doing. No matter how bad you think it is. Be passionate about everything.
Little and big things. Be thankful and look at the bright side. Fall in love
with moments. It makes it a whole lot easier!
Eat, Love, Adventure Out
Dani G.
